Archive - Portrait of a Gay on Fire

We need to be together more

This weekend, at drinks, we were talking about celebrating micro wins as if they were macro.

May 5 •

April 2025

I'm writing again!

Apr 21 •

September 2024

September roundup

depressed but with a hint of pizzazz

Sep 29, 2024 •

Burnt orange corduroy

Scattered thoughts from a sometimes confronting September

Sep 20, 2024 •

August 2024

& time for a break

Aug 4, 2024 •

July 2024

Summertime Sickness (Lana's Version)

thoughts on fantasy and a hero's journey

Jul 21, 2024 •

Some thoughts on Pride month and related recs

Jul 7, 2024 •

June 2024

In defence of inconvenience

Prioritize pleasure and connection over ease

Jun 23, 2024 •

May Roundup (Back in my Body edition)

Sobbing in the spin studio and the usual recs

Jun 2, 2024

May 2024

Don't wait for the perfect moment

Imperfection, expectation vs reality, pushing through resistance, having my phone stolen....etc !

May 19, 2024 •

April 2024

MAY the rest of the year be fruitful, fun, flirty etc.

Apr 28, 2024 •

On being single, dating and love

Apr 14, 2024 •

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